He Doesn’t Give Me Butterflies 🥺🦋

Butterflies PostTraveon “Trae Bae” Harris asked me last night, “When did you fall in love and realize I was the one for you?”

My answer was, “Honestly, after you proposed.” I was hoping that I didn’t hurt his feelings when I gave that response. He asked me to explain more….

I grew up thinking love was a feeling. This gushy mushy feeling. Like these weird butterflies 🦋you get in the pit of your stomach. I never had those with Trae Bae and I didn’t realize why until after he proposed. That butterfly feeling symbolized nervousness & anxiety — all of the thoughts like…

Does he like me?
Is there another woman?

Why is he not answering my texts?

Thoughts like that, come along with those butterflies. Trae never made me feel nervous. From day one he made me feel safe and protected 🙌🏾. On May 1, 2021 he made the ultimate sacrifice to prove that I would never have to go another day without his safety and protection💍💞. And that’s when I realized that Trae was my person for life.


Love is not a feeling. It is an action. It is a decision every day to wake up and show up for another human being. There is no one in this world that I would rather show up for than Trae Bae. God created him specifically for me. He is my soulmate, my best friend, and my ride or die💛.


I can’t believe I’m going to marry this amazing🤩, chocolate🍫, 6ft+ 📏, thoughtful 🫂, intelligent 🧠, and fearless 💪🏾 man!


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